The method
Observe, Name, Return.
The toolkit follows the three-step method from Raising Humans in the Age of AI. Each step is actionable without requiring a full book read.
Notice
Identify where AI and algorithmic systems currently enter your child's life. Not to alarm — to see clearly. The Home Attention Audit is a structured observation guide for this step.
Open Attention Audit →Talk
Create family language around digital safety and AI without creating panic or shame. The Conversation Starter Cards give you practical prompts for different ages and situations.
Open Conversation Cards →Decide
Make deliberate family decisions about platforms, screen time and AI tools — based on your observation, not on news cycles. The Platform Awareness Map helps structure this step.
Open Platform Map →All toolkit tools
Six practical tools.
Each tool is short, printable and designed to be used once — then returned to when the situation changes.
Home Attention Audit
A structured observation guide for mapping how AI and screens currently enter your home.
Open →Platform Awareness Map
A framework for naming which platforms shape your child's attention and what they are optimised for.
Open →Conversation Starter Cards
Practical prompts for family conversations about AI, screens and digital safety at different ages.
Open →Age-Appropriate Framing
How to talk about AI with children from 5 to 17. Different language, same honest principles.
Open →Presence Practice Cards
12 cards for the moments when presence makes a difference. Based on Chapter 7 of the book.
Open →Family AI Policy Template
A one-page template for families who want to make their digital values explicit and revisable.
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